Why do you laugh strangely when you invite a nanny to "rob" the child in the middle of the night?

An incident happened last Thursday (June 29th), which still haunts Mr. Liang, who lives in Nanshan District, Shenzhen.

does the nanny rob the child in the early morning?

it's not the first time that Mr. Liang's family has hired a nanny. He told reporters that because of his busy work, he wanted to hire a live-in nanny to help take care of his 7-month-old daughter.

on June 24th, Mr. Liang came to a mother-infant care platform called "blessed mother", and the staff recommended Ms. Chen to her. According to the staff, Ms. Chen is honest. She used to do similar work in Dongguan and served two families.

the next day, Ms. Chen officially moved into Mr. Liang's house. Mr. Liang told reporters that the nanny lives in a small room at home, while the daughter lives in the same room as the nanny. "I have always felt that there is nothing unusual." Mr. Liang said that in retrospect, I just feel that this nanny is always mentally excited and seems to have endless things to do all day long.

but just when everything felt like it was going to be on the right track, an unexpected thing happened!

in the early morning of last Thursday (June 29th), Mr. Liang was awakened by the sound coming from the balcony of the living room. When he got up and went to the balcony, he found the nanny, Ms. Chen, squatting on the ground and making a phone call. After asking a few questions, Mr. Liang went to the toilet.

suddenly, Mr. Liang in the toilet heard his wife calling for help. "I hurried out and found that the nanny was fighting for the children with my wife." Mr. Liang said that the nanny also slapped the child's ass. He then subdued the nanny and the child was taken back to the room by his wife.

"When my wife heard the child crying, she got up and went to the small room to pick up the child. I didn't expect the nanny to suddenly come and grab the child." Mr. Liang said that he asked the nanny loudly "what to do" and the nanny smiled at him "strangely".

Ms. Chen's husband doesn't agree with the statement that Ms. Chen robbed the children.

He told reporters that after his wife was sober, he also asked about the situation. "She (Ms. Chen) told me that she couldn't sleep that day. When she saw the employer's wife walking around with her child, she wanted to take it and hug it, which may have caused misunderstanding." Ms. Chen' s husband said.

The nanny's husband said that his wife had a history of mental illness

Mr. Liang told reporters that after the incident, he tried to have a dialogue with the nanny, Ms. Chen, but Ms. Chen answered incoherently.

The reporter learned from a video provided by Mr. Liang that Mr. Liang asked how to get to Ms. Chen's hometown. Ms. Chen replied: "You look at the mobile phone and type it yourself."

Mr. Liang said that he suspected that Ms. Chen might be mentally abnormal and sent her to the hospital that morning. "At home, she (Ms. Chen) was still relatively calm, but when she got on the ambulance, she shouted." Mr. Liang said that after arriving at the hospital, Ms. Chen's husband admitted that her wife had a history of mental illness, and people from the housekeeping company could also testify.

In this regard, the relevant staff of the housekeeping company said that Ms. Chen's husband did say this. "I said that I had had depression after giving birth to a child."

Ms. Chen's husband said that her wife did have a history of mental illness. "Problems after giving birth to the youngest son. It's been almost two years now. " However, the reporter did not see the relevant medical appraisal certificate. Ms. Chen's husband also said that after a period of treatment, her wife's illness was cured. After that, Ms. Chen has done several jobs, during which she has been acting normally.

"I don't know why it recurred this time. I haven't had a problem for a long time. Is it stimulated by anything? " Ms. Chen's husband told reporters.

Mr. Liang said that he and his family were greatly frightened after the housekeeping company said that he was "wronged"

. He also looked for the head of the domestic agent "Blessed Mother" Shenzhen Company, but the other party said that they were also very wronged.

The reporter contacted Ms. Zhong, the person in charge of "Blessed Mom" Shenzhen Company. Ms. Zhong said that "Blessed Mother" is a domestic intermediary company, and the nanny Ms. Chen arrived at the company on June 12. When signing the contract with Ms. Chen, the company conducted a complete physical examination according to the procedure and found no problems. Mainly check whether there are some infectious diseases, which does not include testing whether there are mental diseases.

"There is no regulation in the industry to check mental illness. However, when signing the service agreement, Ms. Chen filled in' None' in the column of whether she had a medical history. " Ms. Zhong said that Ms. Chen and her family were suspected of deliberately concealing her illness.

Looking for a nanny can't rely on luck. The mature domestic industry should provide more professional "due diligence" services. This makes people realize the importance of domestic service background investigation and credit information system. Whether you are looking for a nanny or a domestic maid, you should choose carefully!

You must go to a regular company to find a nanny. There is a lot of work to be done before you sign the contract, not just asking questions, but asking for more information.