The talk show Yang Li was criticized and the TV series "The Son-in-Law" was boycotted. How were men and women pushed to the opposite side?

When we were children, our decision about gender was actually unclear. It is not very clear what boys should do and what girls should do. Only in occasional group activities, teachers or other adults will arrange some more physical labor activities for boys. Let girls do some more relaxed and detailed activities. The more obvious distinction should be in the aspect of clothing. Children like to wear cute little dresses. Boys dress up in fewer colors and patterns.

When you are older, the difference between boys and girls is usually that boys and girls play with different things. Boys like to play games and like the mecha car Ultraman. Girls all like to play with small dolls, play house, dress up and other games. To sum up, the preferences of men and women are quite different. As we grow up and become a little adult. Sometimes eating some male and female gender will make some professional choices. For example, some male majors in science majors have one more year. There are more female students in some liberal arts majors. Occupations such as police, soldiers, and firefighters are mostly male. There are more women in kindergarten teachers, housekeeping and service industries. This is also a variety of manifestations in our lives that are generally different from men and women.

Although boys and girls will have some differences in work due to gender differences. But there was a time when the two genders, male and female, were turned into opposites.

The talk show Yang Li was criticized because his words were disrespectful to men. The TV series "The Son-in-Law" was boycotted because the original author's remarks did not respect women. Nowadays, it seems that the results are different depending on the gender of men and women, which seems to arouse heated discussions among everyone. Mainly because of the content related to this aspect, some people will complain on the Internet about how hard it is to be a man and how women don’t understand. How difficult it is to be a woman and how disrespected men are. It’s just that sometimes I feel that some words are very irrational. When they said these words, they didn't think about how the people of the opposite sex who were closest to them felt? And some people just hearsay and label people of a different gender than themselves. You have to remember that whether you are a man or a woman, this is what nature has given us and gives us the most important difference in the division of labor between each person in society. It is not for us to identify which gender is good and which gender is bad. If you really feel that what others say is wrong, then you have done a good job, isn't it just adding glory to people of your gender? What’s more, what does other people’s experiences have to do with gender? Can men and women be distinguished by their different genders? This is inevitably too absolute.